Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Menstruation . Cramping Out Loud



I generally don't get into politics but this really bugged me.....

Apparently saying the words "Menstrual Cramps" freaked out some conservatives during a discussion of the Affordable Care Act's Women's Health package on Monday.

Specifically Dana Loesch.

Senator Tom Harkin was defending the Affordable Care Act's mandate that insurance plans cover preventative care, including birth control pills, he mentioned that birth control pills can benefit women who have difficulty with "menstruation."

Senator Harkin said the following:
There are many women who take birth control pills, for example, because they have terrible menstrual cramps once a month, some of them almost incapacitated, can't work. I know of young women myself who, because of this, aren't able to work and be productive, and it's prescribed by their doctor. 

Dana Loesch's response :
It's asinine to suggest that birth control is the only way women can control menstrual cramps. Speaking from experience with endometriosis, there are a number of other remedies available to women that assist with this issue, not just birth control pills. If it was about women's health, the "birth control" aspect wouldn't be at the spear of the left's push.

Duh..... Dana - - Senator Harkin never stated that birth control is the "only way" women can control menstrual cramps. He also never in fact stated "all" women could benefit from birth control during menstruation, just that many women who experience menstrual cramps - experience relief after using birth control as prescribed by their doctor. She also completely missed the fact that there are actually many aspects of the ACA's women's health package — like domestic violence counseling, breast screening, and HPV testing— that have nothing to do with birth control.

It really annoys me that a man can show more empathy towards women who deal with menstrual issues than another woman.  I'm glad Harkin acknowledges that many women find relief by using birth control pills, but the lack of support Loesch shows--considering she menstruates and presumably gets cramps--is just well what can I say stupid.......

Think, listen and do your homework before you speak and or write Dana - it might do you some good.

Monday, August 6, 2012

Menstruation and Cultures

How is Menstruation perceived in other cultures throughout history? Historically, menstruating women was considered sacred and powerful with increased physic abilities and strong enough to heal the sick but others have a more negative view...

In hunter-gatherer cultures menstruation is quite a rare event and a woman's menstrual status is loudly signaled, so that everyone in the community knows that this is her 'sacred' or 'special' time.  She must neither cook nor permit marital sex to occur for several days until her period ends.

In some cultures, such as that of the Dogon, women stay in a special hut during their menstrual period.

Dogon Menstrual Hut
Beautiful Dogon woman in her Menstrual Hut

Khoisan women in the Kalahari, are ritually most powerful when menstruating. In her special hut, the 'New Maiden' is thought to be inviolable – having only to snap her fingers to bring down lightning on any disrespectful male. (You Go Girl! :)) 

According to the Cherokee, menstrual blood was a source of feminine strength and had the power to destroy enemies.

Cherokee mother and child

In Ancient Rome, Pliny the Elder wrote that a menstruating woman who uncovers her body can scare away hailstorms, whirlwinds and lightning. If she strips naked and walks around the field, caterpillars, worms and beetles fall off the ears of corn.

Menstrual blood is especially dangerous to men's power. In Africa, menstrual blood is used in the most powerful magic charms to both purify and destroy.

Most Christian denominations do not follow any specific rituals or rules related to menstruation. Some Christian denominations, including many authorities of the Eastern Orthodox Church (also known as the Russian, Ukrainian, or Greek Orthodox Church, distinct from the Roman Catholic Church), advise women not to receive communion during their menstrual period.

The traditional Islamic interpretation of the Qur'an forbids intercourse, but not physical intimacy, during a woman's menstrual period.  They are also excused from performing prayers and fasting. In the Qur'an it is considered a "harm" or a nuisance, and women should not be pestered during this time. Respect for women on their cycle is valued. Although they are restricted from entering the mosque, they are encouraged to be present at religious services. After the period, a spiritual bath, which is also required of both partners after sex, Ghusl, is also required before prayer and fasting may continue.

In Judaism, a ritual exclusion called niddah applies to a woman while menstruating and for about a week thereafter, until she immerses herself in a mikvah (ritual bath). During this time, a married couple must avoid sexual intercourse and physical intimacy. Orthodox Judaism forbids women and men from even touching or passing things to each other during this period. 

Hindus in India tend to view menstruation, especially first menstruation or menarche, as a positive aspect of a girl's life. In South India, girls who experience their menstrual period for the first time are given presents and celebrations to mark this special occasion. However, most of the Hindu girls refrain from visiting temples during their cycle. Also in orthodox families, the menstruating women are asked to stay away from domestic activities for a period of 4 days, indirectly a form of rest during the blood loss period.

Hindus in Nepal have a more negative view, traditionally keeping women isolated during menstruation, when women who are menstruating are not allowed in the household for a period of 3 nights. A recent court ruling in Nepal has abolished this practice.

In Buddhism (Theravada or Hinayana) menstruation is viewed as "a natural physical excretion that women have to go through on a monthly basis, nothing more or less". However in Japanese Buddhism menstruating women are banned from attending temples.

In Japan, the religion of Shinto did and still does play a part in their society. The Kami, the spirits they worshiped, would not grant wishes if you had traces of blood, dirt, or death on you. While menstruation is not entirely blood, the ancient Japanese did not know that. As a result, women who were menstruating were not allowed to visit any of the Kami shrines for the duration of their menstrual period. Even today, women are not allowed to enter Shinto shrines and temples during menstruation, and in some instances, women are completely banned from climbing the tops of sacred mountains due to their 'impurity'.  Furthermore, the tradition is kept somewhat alive in the belief that the shedding of the endometrial lining is a kind of death. It is theorized that the Kami are the reason Japan is kept so clean and, in many houses, minimalistic.


women climbers banned in Japan

In Bali, women are not allowed to enter the kitchen to perform her usual duties, nor is she allowed to have sex with her husband while menstruating. She is to sleep apart from the family and has to keep her clothes that she wears while menstruating away from any clothes that she could wear to the temple. One of the most important taboos is that a woman is not allowed to attend temple while menstruating.

Bali temple


In Sumba, women keep their cycles secret, which makes men see them as deceitful. Women from Sumba believe that because of their secrecy, they will always have control of the men. “Men will never know how much we really can do to control these things. We have all kinds of secrets, and they should always believe that we can control even more than we really can”.


Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Menstrual Cycle Causing You To Shop


Researchers at Montreal's Concordia University say that when women are at their infertile part of their monthly cycle, they spend more money on food, and crave high-calorie treats. But when women are fertile, they are more likely to pay more attention to their appearance and shop for clothes.

The study had 59 participants who kept detailed diaries about their beauty routine, clothing choices, calorie consumption, and purchases over a 35-day period.

"These consumption behaviors take place without women's conscious awareness of how hormonal fluctuations affect their choices as consumers. These findings can help women to make choices for themselves contrary to the old canard of biological determinism," researcher Gad Saad said in a news release from Concordia University in Montreal.

Well, I’m not complaining – shopping does feel good.

Do you think your cycle affects your spending habits? 

The study was published recently in the Journal of Consumer Psychology.

More information
The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services has more about the menstrual cycle





Thursday, June 7, 2012

The Giant Inflatable Pantiliner

We now can have a "Giant Inflatable Pantiliner" for those summer days - to use - to lounge on in the pool,......something that prepares us for the unexpected and help keep us feeling fresh all day..........hahaha!!!! - I could not stop laughing!! 

Sam's Club has developed the "Aquaria Pasadena Pool Float" - And it actually does look like a Feminine Hygiene Product! A Sam's Club customer "Amanda" noticed the pool toy.

What was the designer thinking??? Well at least the " marbleized " blue design is not in red...........



P.S.  This is the photo that is featured in the "Sam's Club" website - OMGoodness!! and it's a Guy model - How funny!!!





Source:  Haven't You Always Wanted A Giant Floating Panty Liner? [The Consumerist]


Sunday, March 4, 2012

Playing Doctor

This video is nearly 20 minutes long - but it is so worth your time. Rachel Maddow is on target - she explains why we should be more concerned about Rush Limbaugh's ignorance than his meanness because it's not just Rush, Mitt Romney doesn't understand birth control, and it seems that neither do a whole bunch of decision makers - yet they keep playing doctor on the issue.

Congress really needs to stop messing with our reproductive rights -

At any rate - happy viewing - would love your thoughts on this issue.

P.S. - Loved Rachel's "The Man Cave's Not - Too - Upsetting Guide To Down - There Parts"- hilarious.



Tuesday, February 28, 2012

THE PERFECT VAGINA


The perfect vagina from heather leach on Vimeo.

 
“My sister use to joke with all of my male mates that I have a hanging Hymen”

 “A boyfriend once told me I have a Big Flappy Fanny”

“I just thought I was so different from everyone else – and I wanted that to be changed”

 “My vagina looks like a Hot Dog”

 “I wanted to be the same as everyone else” 

Lisa Rogers and Heather Leach take us on a journey to discover why women are considering vaginal surgery in their honest and compassionate documentary called - “The Perfect Vagina”.

It was an eye-opener for me. Insecure about your vagina? I was certainly shocked and saddened to see how many women of different ages are insecure about their vagina. They are going to extreme lengths just to feel normal in order to obtain “genital beauty”.

I hope that in viewing this documentary - you will share and share Lisa and Heather's message that "It just doesn't  matter what your VAGINA looks like - LOVE IT".